Intimacy means two people meeting in openness, in honesty and in trust.
Intimacy also means when I am with you I want to take down my walls to let you in. And I also want you to take down your walls and let me in.
If I come to a relationship with all my walls and all my shame, there is no love.
If we have shame, we don’t know how to open ourselves because we feel that we don’t have anything good inside. So it’s better to hide than open.
Everybody has shame. It comes the way that we were brought up. And it’s very important that you understand, we don’t want get rid of shame, because we can’t.
Shame is not always bad. Because shame also can help us to become better people. We want to become friendly with it.

And when your sorrow is comforted time soothes all sorrows you will be content that you have known me、You will always be my friend、You will want to laugh with me、And you will sometimes open your window, so, for that pleasure…

当你不再感到伤心的时候(时间会冲淡一切伤痛)，你就会因认识我而感到心满意足。你是我永远的朋友。将会和我一起欢笑。为了欢乐，你会经常打开窗子……

And your friends will be properly astonished to see you laughing as you look up at the sky! Then you will say to them, "Yes, the stars always make me laugh!"

当你的朋友看到你因仰望天空而大笑时，一定会感到莫名其妙!到时候，你可以对他们说：“是的，星星总让我开心而笑!”

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挂人避雷[团圆兔]真的是重新定义跑单
这位大姐在我发的帖子(p6)下面问kms新春柚一套 我回了120包邮 她也回复了“我收 可以预留吗”(想问问大家这都不算确定怎么才算呢)然后就是私信她问预留多久 他说四月中旬我同意了
接着就是奇葩的开始。我说预留要付20%定金（这不出收物常识吗？应该没几个姐妹能接受空口预留吧）一天之后她就跟我说不需要了（其实这时候已经很明显了吧就是不想付定金又想别人把东西留着等她昭然若揭了呗）之后我回了她要付跑单费 这大姐就开始狡辩自己没确定收了[嘻嘻]自己说的话都让人觉得“自私”打在屏幕上了“我怕有人来收才跟你说收的”“又不是只有你一个人出物”“我看到更好价的就收了别人的”完全一副自己怎么都有理的嘴脸[哈哈]感情我活该给你当陪聊?活该给你当保底?有了更好价的就能轻飘飘一句不要了把我打发走[鼓掌][太开心]
这位大姐还是个粉丝1k+的玻珠 不仅不想承认自己就是想空手套白狼不付定金还想让让别人像王宝钏一样心甘情愿苦等你十八年 而且说的话更是可笑至极自私自利 大家避雷她！！！！！！@Kari-jimo https://t.cn/A6NvqR1N