最近可能常常需要Tal的这则小故事宽慰自己。因为我之前出于礼貌和体面，做了一件事后后悔的事情，觉得何必这样委屈自己，我没有犯错，我却为了所谓的礼貌和做一个体面的人去道歉了，而这样的道歉让之后很长的时间里，我都时不时感到后悔和不开心，对方霸凌了我，我却道歉离开。离开是对的，但某些“感到抱歉”的话确实是不该说的。当时劝我去打个招呼的朋友，她确实是未经我苦。
"All or nothing" is catastrophizing failure , not seeing failure as an opportunity, as a stepping stone, but seeing it as the end of the world.
when in Jon Stewart's show, Tal said sth that he later regretted. It was just one sentence, no big deal, but that is what I focused on. ... The whole flight that's what I was thinking of, ignoring the other things, the fact that 2 hrs after Jon Stewart's show, the book became the best seller. Completely ignored that, didn't exist as far as I was concerned. IT WAS JUST THAT ONE SENTENCE. How could I said? Why didn't I prepare for it better? And so on.
And then I suddenly said,"Hey! Wait a minute, tunnel vision." And I zoomed out. I looked at the bigger picture and then I said,"OK, so I said sth that I regret, big deal, you know, it;s comedy, it's fun, so many people, so many of your friends have watched it and enjoyed it. It was a great opportunity and I look at the bigger picture. Give myself the permission to be human, to regret it, but then overall could see it in a much rational light than before.
（后面感到宽慰的是看到Tal也会因为说了后悔的话，要花好几个月才能摆脱烦恼，现在对我来说，是过去了一个月，还有点苦恼。但是 whatever，尽管我说了让自己后悔并感到委屈的话，但这只是一段话，对我又有什么影响呢？让我更加认识到窗口对面的都是人是狗，这是最后一次的确定，也更加庆幸自己清醒的摆脱了这个环境。）
"All or nothing" is catastrophizing failure , not seeing failure as an opportunity, as a stepping stone, but seeing it as the end of the world.
when in Jon Stewart's show, Tal said sth that he later regretted. It was just one sentence, no big deal, but that is what I focused on. ... The whole flight that's what I was thinking of, ignoring the other things, the fact that 2 hrs after Jon Stewart's show, the book became the best seller. Completely ignored that, didn't exist as far as I was concerned. IT WAS JUST THAT ONE SENTENCE. How could I said? Why didn't I prepare for it better? And so on.
And then I suddenly said,"Hey! Wait a minute, tunnel vision." And I zoomed out. I looked at the bigger picture and then I said,"OK, so I said sth that I regret, big deal, you know, it;s comedy, it's fun, so many people, so many of your friends have watched it and enjoyed it. It was a great opportunity and I look at the bigger picture. Give myself the permission to be human, to regret it, but then overall could see it in a much rational light than before.
（后面感到宽慰的是看到Tal也会因为说了后悔的话，要花好几个月才能摆脱烦恼，现在对我来说，是过去了一个月，还有点苦恼。但是 whatever，尽管我说了让自己后悔并感到委屈的话，但这只是一段话，对我又有什么影响呢？让我更加认识到窗口对面的都是人是狗，这是最后一次的确定，也更加庆幸自己清醒的摆脱了这个环境。）
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En respuesta a su "gemelo perdido hace mucho tiempo", Musk dijo el lunes: "tal vez sea mitad chino".
Los videos, publicados en la versión china de Tiktok, se tornaron virales en los últimos días En ellos, el sujeto está de pie junto a un lujoso automóvil, sonriendo a la cámara de vez en cuando.
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