[吃瓜]最近是干饭人和吃瓜人…
近期隔离琐事：
凌晨两点半被班长电话喊起来，全校大半夜测核酸…
被锁在宿舍，后勤部送饭：“开饭啦”，“同学们吃饭啦”，“快出来拿饭啊”“不拿马上就没啦”…（ 吃早餐啦，吃午饭啦，吃晚餐啦）定点吃饭真的让人三餐规律了…
And 室友dundundun跑出去拿饭的情景是近期快乐源泉…

#Vintage Cover# #harpersbazaar#
杂志自扫

Harper’s Bazaar 芭莎 1951 January
Model：Dovima
Photographer: Richard Avedon
Lipstick—— Elizabeth Arden “Desert Pink”
Dress—— Larry Aldrich
Jewels—— Van Cleef and Arpels
拍摄资料@山口小夜子170

很经典的芭莎风格，以柔美梦幻的粉色作为整本杂志的主题色，书内除了多页使用粉色字体排版外，还使用了粉色来绘制时装插画和鞋履广告，极富女性色彩。

封面这种色调是“Sunset Pinks”，翻译成中文差不多是“落霞粉”的意思。

其实这个主题放在夏季刊会更合适一些，英国版同一年的7月刊rp了这个封面，不过色调稍作了调整，背景更偏浅灰。

“开口让人帮忙好难，因为别人都认为你是妈妈，理应照顾孩子。而你又永远不会想说:‘当妈的也需要帮忙。’我怀了她九个月，知道她要来，有心理准备。我觉得自己应该能照顾好她，不想让其他人中止自己的生活来帮我带孩子，尤其不想让没参与孕育这个孩子的人来帮忙。但最终我还是屈服了。我就一个人，7天24小时无休的带孩子真的让人抓狂。再看到别人依旧过的有滋有味，我就很郁闷，然后就会故意搞事情。这已经危害到我跟其他人的关系了。我会跟我妈和男朋友吵架，本来好好的一句开场白‘能帮下忙吗？’，我都会发脾气，直接来一句：‘你们为啥不帮忙?’”

“It’s so hard to ask for help. Because you’re supposed to be ‘Mommy.’ And you never want to say: ‘I need help being Mommy.’ I carried this person for nine months. I knew she was coming. I felt like I should be able to handle it and I didn’t want to ask other people to stop their lives. Especially if they had no part in making this baby. But eventually I had to give in. I’m just one person and being ‘Mama’ 24/7 can make you crazy. I found myself getting frustrated that other people were going on with their lives. I’d let things fester. And it was unhealthy for my relationships. I’d get heated with my mother and boyfriend. Instead of beginning with ‘Can you help?’ I’d lose my temper, and jump straight to: ‘Why aren’t you helping?’”

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