#承欢记全剧都在告诉我们要珍惜当下#
看完承欢记以后，我对一句话的感悟特别深：爱人如养花，爱己应如是。

爱人爱己真的就像孕育一盆花一样，要有合适的光照但不能太晒，要给它浇水但不能过多，需要施肥但要掌握好时机和用量，精心呵护才能看到它盛开时最美的样子。不要等到它蔫了，枯了，干死了才后悔没有好好照顾它，也不到时时刻刻关注着它，拔苗助长，让它失去自然的生长的美。

承欢记告诉我们不管是亲情，友情，还是爱情，都需要用心经营，珍惜当下，用对方法。不是一股脑的将爱抛出去，而是要留有空间，留有分寸。

但在爱他人的同时，也不能失去自我，迷失自我，把所有的一切都奉献给别人，从而忽略自己。在想好好爱人的同时我们反而要更爱自己，更关注自己的感受，你若盛开，蝴蝶自来，你若精彩，天自安排。

感谢遇见麦承欢、姚志明还有可爱的刘婉玉女士，以及麦家的每一个人。希望你们在另一个平行世界里，幸福美满，阖家团圆！#电视剧承欢记[超话]##杨紫麦承欢#

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今天因为偶然的事情我久违地想起了lb 这个在我的记忆里越来越远去的人
时至今日我仍然不相信他会说非常伤害我的话 以前也许多多少少也有过 随着时间的流逝却慢慢记不清了
什么意思呢 我发现我还是比较容易受到 自己心中看重的人的影响 当他们说一些不太好的话时
我知道需要改进 让自己完全做情绪的主人 而非寄希望于他人
当选择合适的伴侣时 很重要的是不要否定你 不要pua你 不要让你自己觉得自己缺点累累 而是在他心中 你已经是最完美的人 是最可爱的人 如曾舜晞所说 缺点可以包容而非忍耐
爱人先爱己一定是个真命题