晚上看导演的采访,我太喜欢她讲和科恩伯格的比较这一段了,让我觉得她是一个会讲故事的导演,更是一个好作家。她说她没有采用纪录片式的方式去一个真实的家庭中拍,那样太平淡了。 This movie is about language, that can be used to understand the things that we couldn't understand, it's not about the reality or thoughts.
主持人问她是不是因为疫情和丈夫居家办公的经历才写了这个剧本,她笑笑说并没有,一开始写作不会意识到自己要写一个关于夫妻的故事,而且丈夫还活着呢!哈哈哈,但写着写着就想不要照搬现实。我非常喜欢她讲话,写作就是这样的呀,一开始写的东西肯定不是最终的那个东西,一开始就是没有目的地的。
主持人问她是不是因为疫情和丈夫居家办公的经历才写了这个剧本,她笑笑说并没有,一开始写作不会意识到自己要写一个关于夫妻的故事,而且丈夫还活着呢!哈哈哈,但写着写着就想不要照搬现实。我非常喜欢她讲话,写作就是这样的呀,一开始写的东西肯定不是最终的那个东西,一开始就是没有目的地的。
#阳光信用[超话]#[兔子]#阳光信用# [太开心]#每日一善#
互助最新人人存善念,并能日行一善,则个人、家庭、社会一定安乐祥和。这世上,有时笑笑人家,有时给别人笑笑自己,放轻松,给自己快乐,也给别人快乐。同学丢一张纸屑—那是制造恶业;我们捡起一张纸屑。心中不可少善,行事不可无诚的心,对待每一个人;以负责的心,做好份内的事;以谦虚的心,检讨自己的错误;以不变的心,坚持正确的理念;以宽阔的心,包容对不起你的人;以感恩的心,感谢所拥有的;以平常的心,接受已发生的事实。 中华民族传统美德,倡导“格物、致知、诚意、正心、修身、齐家、治国、平天下”的实现人生理想的步骤和模式。这种为人处世的基本道德观念,是人类进行物质生产活动和自身生存发展的基本要求,也是人们共同生活的起码的行为准则。Mutual aid is the latest. If everyone has good intentions and can do good deeds every day, then individuals, families, and society will surely be happy and peaceful. In this world, sometimes we laugh at others, sometimes we laugh at ourselves, relax, give ourselves happiness, and also give others happiness. Classmate throwing a piece of paper scraps - that's creating bad karma; We picked up a piece of paper scraps. Be kind in your heart and act with sincerity towards everyone; With a responsible heart, do your duties well; With a humble heart, reflect on one's mistakes; Adhere to the correct philosophy with an unchanged heart; With a broad heart, tolerate those who have wronged you; With a grateful heart, thank you for what you have; Accept the facts that have happened with a calm heart. The traditional virtues of the Chinese nation advocate for the steps and models of realizing life ideals, which are "respecting things, understanding knowledge, sincerity, righteousness, self-cultivation, family harmony, governing the country, and pacifying the world.". This basic moral concept of dealing with people is a fundamental requirement for human material production activities and their own survival and development, as well as a basic code of conduct for people to live together.
互助最新人人存善念,并能日行一善,则个人、家庭、社会一定安乐祥和。这世上,有时笑笑人家,有时给别人笑笑自己,放轻松,给自己快乐,也给别人快乐。同学丢一张纸屑—那是制造恶业;我们捡起一张纸屑。心中不可少善,行事不可无诚的心,对待每一个人;以负责的心,做好份内的事;以谦虚的心,检讨自己的错误;以不变的心,坚持正确的理念;以宽阔的心,包容对不起你的人;以感恩的心,感谢所拥有的;以平常的心,接受已发生的事实。 中华民族传统美德,倡导“格物、致知、诚意、正心、修身、齐家、治国、平天下”的实现人生理想的步骤和模式。这种为人处世的基本道德观念,是人类进行物质生产活动和自身生存发展的基本要求,也是人们共同生活的起码的行为准则。Mutual aid is the latest. If everyone has good intentions and can do good deeds every day, then individuals, families, and society will surely be happy and peaceful. In this world, sometimes we laugh at others, sometimes we laugh at ourselves, relax, give ourselves happiness, and also give others happiness. Classmate throwing a piece of paper scraps - that's creating bad karma; We picked up a piece of paper scraps. Be kind in your heart and act with sincerity towards everyone; With a responsible heart, do your duties well; With a humble heart, reflect on one's mistakes; Adhere to the correct philosophy with an unchanged heart; With a broad heart, tolerate those who have wronged you; With a grateful heart, thank you for what you have; Accept the facts that have happened with a calm heart. The traditional virtues of the Chinese nation advocate for the steps and models of realizing life ideals, which are "respecting things, understanding knowledge, sincerity, righteousness, self-cultivation, family harmony, governing the country, and pacifying the world.". This basic moral concept of dealing with people is a fundamental requirement for human material production activities and their own survival and development, as well as a basic code of conduct for people to live together.
单身养狗的心理咨询师朋友说看到我和我女儿的互动之后,她突然想生个孩子了。我很诧异,问为什么,她说因为觉得我和我女儿的关系很“正常”。然后又感慨说“正常”的母女关系有多么难得!这年头能“正常”多不容易呀!
我笑笑,说我懂。心理咨询师都知道“正常”是多么稀有的品质。
我女儿的好朋友经常跟她说,“Your mom is the Best mom in the world forever!”跟她抱怨说自己在家都没有什么选择权,而且常常被“push”做自己不想做的事情。我女儿跟她分享自己的生活之后,她常常惊呼我女儿有个“神仙妈妈”!
我女儿也常跟小伙伴炫耀说,因为老妈是心理咨询师,所以她从小没挨过打。(这要求也太低了吧啊喂!)而且我们俩的关系是类似那种friends的关系。在她心中妈妈就是个搞笑女。
新见的儿童治疗师说很羡慕我女儿的投胎技术。很感慨我为她做的。
当妈的时候,常常会有种不自信,不知道自己做的到底怎么样。来自身边的这些反馈,给了我非常大的力量。也能让我松一口气,继续完成“当妈”这个很不容易的事业。
#生活手记#
我笑笑,说我懂。心理咨询师都知道“正常”是多么稀有的品质。
我女儿的好朋友经常跟她说,“Your mom is the Best mom in the world forever!”跟她抱怨说自己在家都没有什么选择权,而且常常被“push”做自己不想做的事情。我女儿跟她分享自己的生活之后,她常常惊呼我女儿有个“神仙妈妈”!
我女儿也常跟小伙伴炫耀说,因为老妈是心理咨询师,所以她从小没挨过打。(这要求也太低了吧啊喂!)而且我们俩的关系是类似那种friends的关系。在她心中妈妈就是个搞笑女。
新见的儿童治疗师说很羡慕我女儿的投胎技术。很感慨我为她做的。
当妈的时候,常常会有种不自信,不知道自己做的到底怎么样。来自身边的这些反馈,给了我非常大的力量。也能让我松一口气,继续完成“当妈”这个很不容易的事业。
#生活手记#
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