#原则#不要患得患失，要朝着目标努力前行。要自省自警，别人对你很到位的批评，是你能得到的最宝贵的建议。想想看，你的滑雪教练告诉你，你摔跟头是因为你在滑行中的重心移动不对，此时你要是认为他在责骂你，你该多么愚蠢和低效。同理，你的上司也可能会指出你工作中的缺点，有则改之，继续努力就是了。

Put your insecurities away and get on with achieving your goals. Reflect and remind yourself that an accurate criticism is the most valuable feedback you can receive. Imagine how silly and unproductive it would be to respond to your ski instructor as if he were blaming you when he told you that you fell because you didn’t shift your weight properly. It’s no different if a supervisor points out a flaw in your work process. Fix it and move on.

小李子经典电影：《猫鼠游戏》（Catch Me If You Can）
经典语录：Two little mice fell in a bucket of cream.
两只小老鼠掉进了牛奶桶
The first mouse quickly gave up and drowend.
第一只很快就放弃了被淹死了
The second mouse wouldn't quit.
第二只却不放弃
He struggled so hard that eventually he churned that cream
into butter and crawled out.
它猛烈挣扎直到把牛奶都搅拌成了奶油然后爬了出去。

I have had my best love before, but I didn’t treasure her. When I lost her, I fell regretful. It is the most painful matter in this world. If God can give me another chance, I will say 3 words to her --- I love you. If you have to give a time limit to this love, I hope it is 10 thousand years https://t.cn/E6zir4j