#我的法裔婆婆mémé# 91岁的Meme ，让女婿把她那半个多世纪的小厨房厨柜，重新刷色，老太太自己选了Tiffany blue 蒂芙尼蓝。今天在她那儿，还与我和Ray哥讨论了半天，是否把台面以上的橱柜也刷成这个颜色。我们都知道老太太像个孩子了，Ray哥说 “ Mom, it’s a beautiful color. Just do whatever you like.” 在我心里，Meme就是个艺术家，看她设计和亲手制作的彩玻璃吊挂，独一无二啊。。。一碟「柠檬软鸡」，一盘Phyllo 酥角，一瓶 Côtes du Rhône 法国白葡萄酒，Simple yet delicious ，充满喜悦。 https://t.cn/R2WxFX7

雪儿cher，上世纪20-70的歌手，然后52岁迎来强势回春，90年代末的全球热门舞曲《Believe》然后2018她在《妈妈咪呀:又来了》中回归大银幕，她职业生涯特别长。我对她了解不多，但是我知道她时髦。而且是真时髦，73依然时髦，另外她观念特别好和超前，

雪儿说：“男人不是必需品，男人是奢侈品。他们就像是甜品”“我热爱甜品，男人很酷。但不一定要靠男人活着。我妈妈对我说：'你知道，甜心，有一天你应该安顿下来，嫁给一个有钱人。' ”雪儿答：妈妈，我是有钱人 Mom, I am a rich man"

希望每一个女性，独立思考，敢爱敢拼

When browsing around all kinds of online platforms，WeChat, Blogs, or TikTok, it's more likely to be confronted with pessimistic feelings, complaints, disappointment, accusations, depression, desperation and so forth. I have no rights and position to criticize or judge them. But ,definitely, I don't want to be influenced emotionally. Today, one day off, with no online shift, I made the wardrobe cleaning out of the necessity of garment - changing for the approaching of late spring. As a man's wife and a girl's mom, I'm obligated to do more for them willingly. Exhausted, with a severe stomachache, however, I was determined to complete the huge task. Tomorrow is another day, and seize the day, I may not bother to reflect on the inner me. https://t.cn/RZ5lbu6