昨晚大家都在抢着付钱的时候，我在听培训课程做笔记，结束后把购物车里的东西全删了。
想要的东西早就买了，不一定非要在某个日子里才能拥有。没必要的东西就及时清理，不要被他人的狂欢所迷惑。
用市场营销的思维分析的话，就是：
分清自己的【needs】和【wants】。
化妆与否，单身与否，自己开心就好了。
Walk of no shame

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人生不需要很复杂，‭只要把握好四个重点，就变得‭简单多了，这样才能保持‭专注的心，不畏‭困难勇往直前。--卢·‭霍兹
Life doesn't have to be complicated. You need four things in your life. Everybody needs something to do, someone to love, someone to believe and something to hope for.

Today this eruption of destructive forces has already taken place, and man suffers from it in spirit. That is why patients force the psychotherapist into the rôle of a priest, and expect and demand of him that he shall free them from their distress. That is why we psychotherapists must occupy ourselves with problems which, strictly speaking, belong to the theologian. But we cannot leave these questions for theology to answer; the urgent, psychic needs of suffering people confront us with them day after day. Since, as a rule, every concept and viewpoint handed down from the past fails us, we must first tread with the patient the path of his illness-the path of his mistake that sharpens his conficts and increases his loneliness till it grows unbearable-hoping that from the psychic depths which cast up the powers of destruction the rescuing forces will come also.

-Modern Man in Search of a Soul