【天下父母都很黑呀[哈哈][哈哈][哈哈][哈哈]】总是说中国有虎妈，国外父母散养，实际上国外的父母也虎得狠，只不过名称没有那种丛林味道，表达更现代化一点而已：Helicopter parenting, the practice of hovering anxiously near one’s children, monitoring their every activity, is so 20th century. Some affluent mothers and fathers now are more like snowplows: machines chugging ahead, clearing any obstacles in their child’s path to success, so they don’t have to encounter failure, frustration or lost opportunities.20世纪的说法是，直升机式父母，一直焦虑地徘徊在孩子身边，监控着他们的一举一动。现在的说法是，扫雪机父母（名门望族更是如此）：像扫雪机一样，突突地向前推进，为他们的孩子通往成功的道路上清除一切可能出现的障碍，这样他们的孩子就不必遭遇失败和挫折，或是失去机会。

卡夫卡对于爱有一个独特的定义：“什么是爱？其实很简单。凡是提高、充实、丰富我们生活的东西就是爱。通向一切高度和深度的东西就是爱。”
为了热爱，即将开启我的“心流计划”
Ａstate in which people are so involved in an activity that nothing else matters,the experience is so enjoyable that people will continue to do it,even at a great cost for the sheer sake of doing it.
希望自己一定要坚持，一定要坚持，一定要坚持！

#酷艾英语早起团[超话]#(今天补上昨天没发的笔记打卡)You are what you read
Last year,I had gone to college and been a formal college student.It's brought by my hard work yesterday.
It means that you are today where your thoughts have brought you,so you will be tomorrow where you thoughts take you.
You are what you read.what you read today will be displayed in yourself tomorrow