And there is the “tradition “
The TRADITION says:
you are thirty years old, it’s time to marry
you should marry someone who has a big house and something material ……
I can say that during the whole thirty years of my life, i have been struggling with this damn tradition
I don’t konw who is the winner, me or the tradition holders?
But I don’t care
What I wanna is that I must be myself
It may be selfish , but i think my mom will understand
So what does it to you?

And it's funny how my so-called friends
那些曾经将我抛弃
Who've always left me alone
却自称是我所谓的朋友们
Are suddenly running into me
突然之间涌向我家门前
And blowin' up my phone
狂轰我电话 真的很搞笑
I'm kickin' in the door now
此刻我踹门而出
Better get out my way
最好不要挡我路
This for everybody
这首歌是唱给所有
Who've always put me down
曾经看轻我的那些人

——《Look At me Now》

醍醐灌顶，喜欢“打碎重组”这个概念。

《Why Women Kill》S02中，Lana有段台词是：
" I admire women who try to remake themselves. Reject the hand they were dealt, become something new.
Smarter, prettier, stronger.
When women like us do it well enough, no one can imagine e were ever anyone else. "
最喜欢她在Storybook里塑造的Regina这个角色，vibing like a HBIC。

前些天，很喜欢的一个博主退博了，但正是女生们的这些Alpha girl energy激励、鞭策着我继续前行。