在心理学上，有个专业的术语叫“假性亲密关系”。
它是指两人在形式上虽然在一起，但在内心却拒绝向对方坦诚，并逃避对对方的接纳和付出。
你有没有遇到过这样的人，不管与对方待的时间有多长，两人的关系依然像隔着什么，始终无法变得亲近。
你们会一起上课、吃饭、走同一段回家的路，但是，也顶多从普通朋友变成了经常待在一起的普通朋友。
你应该也做过努力，想要和对方变得亲近，但是不知道为什么，对方似乎并不接受你的橄榄枝。
每一次想要变得亲近的期待，都变成了必然的沮丧和失望。
人与人之间，其实是个化学反应的过程，而自我坦露不过是催化剂，本身合拍的两个人能够迅速产生反应，而不合拍的人，怎么添加，也没有反应。
你身边也有无论如何都走不近的朋友吗？
你自己本身就是一个难以接近但渴望亲密的人吗？
我希望，总有一个人能够让你放下心来自我坦露，也但愿每一段内心独白，都能被对的人收留。
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