想念是人生旅途的起点

It’s an immense achievement to be able both to care for someone and endure their absence, to feel a wound without resorting to numbness, rage or an affair, to miss someone without reinventing what the missing person means to us. We’ll have begun to accede to genuine emotional maturity when we rediscover the courage to be hurt by those we love – when we can acknowledge, with some of the honesty of our younger selves, just how much it hurts when someone we adore crosses an ocean – or has the impudence to go off to the shops for an afternoon with their friends.

The Achievement of Missing Someone.

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女生们！我们需要一些积极热情的东西。今天我们是学校的好学生，明天我们就是社会的好栋梁！让我们为青春干杯！告诉年轻人我们将会死去。
Girls! We need something positive and enthusiastic. Today we are good students in the school, and tomorrow we will be good pillars of society! Let's drink to youth! Tell young people that we are going to die.

「If I told you how much I think about her
You'd think I was in love
And if you knew how much I looked at her pictures
You would think we're best friends
'Cause I know her star sign, I know her blood type
I've seen every movie she's been in and, oh god, she's beautiful
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But I can't help it, no, I can't help it
I'm so obsessed with your ex」


簡直有點像女同了。