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译文：当你12岁有机会扮演一个梦想中的角色时，你不会真的去想它会对你的生活产生多久的影响。结束了《#超能敢死队:冰封之城#》的新闻发布会，我感到非常激动和感激。我很幸运能扮演一个角色，成为与这么多人有联系的事情的一份子。我见过很多家庭、父母、孩子，他们告诉我捉鬼敢死队在过去的40年里如何影响了他们的生活。我说的不是这里那里的几个故事，而是几百个。我见过打扮成菲比的孩子，在捉鬼敢死队主题婚礼上结婚的夫妇，有孩子的父母在光谱上看到自己是菲比，我甚至见过以她的名字命名的孩子…扮演这个角色和听人们的故事教会了我很多关于我自己和我想成为的人。这听起来很疯狂，但它是如此之深！成为这个团队的一员是一种疯狂的荣誉，这是我童年的重要组成部分。感谢《捉鬼敢死队》、索尼、杰森、吉尔和伊万永远改变了我的生活——也感谢《捉鬼敢死队》的粉丝欢迎我加入这个家庭:)我永远不会忘记成为《捉鬼敢死队》的一员，永远不会。这是我做过最酷的事。希望你们能像我们制作这部电影一样喜欢这部电影❤️
原文：
When you get the chance to play a dream role at 12, you don’t really think about the lasting impact it’ll have on your life. Finishing the press tour for Ghostbusters Frozen Empire, I’ve been feeling really emotional and thankful. I’ve been so lucky to play a character and be part of something that’s connected with so many people. I’ve met so many familys, parents, kids, people who’ve told me stories of how Ghostbusters has impacted their life over the past 40 years. I’m not just talking about a few stories here and there, but hundreds. I’ve met kids dressed as Phoebe, couples who got married in a Ghostbuster’s themed wedding, parents with kids on the spectrum that see themselves in Phoebe, I’ve even met kids NAMED after her…playing this character and hearing people’s stories have taught me a lot about myself and who I want to be. It sounds crazy, but it is that deep! It’s been such an insane honor to be a part of this franchise, one that’s been such a massive part of my own childhood. Thank you Ghostbusters, Sony, Jason, Gil and Ivan for changing my life forever- and thank you to the Ghostbuster’s fans for welcoming me into the family:) I’ll never get over getting to be a ghostbuster, ever. Coolest thing I’ve ever done. Hope yall love the movie as much as we loved getting to make it❤️
(The last three in this are baby me)
#mckennagrace##超能敢死队:冰封之城#
译文：当你12岁有机会扮演一个梦想中的角色时，你不会真的去想它会对你的生活产生多久的影响。结束了《#超能敢死队:冰封之城#》的新闻发布会，我感到非常激动和感激。我很幸运能扮演一个角色，成为与这么多人有联系的事情的一份子。我见过很多家庭、父母、孩子，他们告诉我捉鬼敢死队在过去的40年里如何影响了他们的生活。我说的不是这里那里的几个故事，而是几百个。我见过打扮成菲比的孩子，在捉鬼敢死队主题婚礼上结婚的夫妇，有孩子的父母在光谱上看到自己是菲比，我甚至见过以她的名字命名的孩子…扮演这个角色和听人们的故事教会了我很多关于我自己和我想成为的人。这听起来很疯狂，但它是如此之深！成为这个团队的一员是一种疯狂的荣誉，这是我童年的重要组成部分。感谢《捉鬼敢死队》、索尼、杰森、吉尔和伊万永远改变了我的生活——也感谢《捉鬼敢死队》的粉丝欢迎我加入这个家庭:)我永远不会忘记成为《捉鬼敢死队》的一员，永远不会。这是我做过最酷的事。希望你们能像我们制作这部电影一样喜欢这部电影❤️
原文：
When you get the chance to play a dream role at 12, you don’t really think about the lasting impact it’ll have on your life. Finishing the press tour for Ghostbusters Frozen Empire, I’ve been feeling really emotional and thankful. I’ve been so lucky to play a character and be part of something that’s connected with so many people. I’ve met so many familys, parents, kids, people who’ve told me stories of how Ghostbusters has impacted their life over the past 40 years. I’m not just talking about a few stories here and there, but hundreds. I’ve met kids dressed as Phoebe, couples who got married in a Ghostbuster’s themed wedding, parents with kids on the spectrum that see themselves in Phoebe, I’ve even met kids NAMED after her…playing this character and hearing people’s stories have taught me a lot about myself and who I want to be. It sounds crazy, but it is that deep! It’s been such an insane honor to be a part of this franchise, one that’s been such a massive part of my own childhood. Thank you Ghostbusters, Sony, Jason, Gil and Ivan for changing my life forever- and thank you to the Ghostbuster’s fans for welcoming me into the family:) I’ll never get over getting to be a ghostbuster, ever. Coolest thing I’ve ever done. Hope yall love the movie as much as we loved getting to make it❤️
(The last three in this are baby me)
#mckennagrace##超能敢死队:冰封之城#
为什么我坚定的相信张元英-元英无疑是承受骂声最多的五代女团成员。自从IZ*ONE开始c位出道，备受骂声，做票、对队友白眼。到22年突如其来的国籍争议，全平台对元英的网暴，不敢回头看那年对元英无底线的造谣，哪个乱纪从开始就是毒唯呢？我从IZ*ONE没有任何立场动摇的团偏，到元英以ive成员出道，我以为我一直都会是团粉，为了张元英可以爱屋及乌一群女孩。但是我好像从开始就是错的，炽1粉在元英生日刷忌日快乐黑词条、安谧把凰片AI换脸，这永远都是所有缘分心里的结。我以前从来不会把粉丝的过错算在ido本人身上，22年开始，我好像看到了粉圈真正的样子。我究竟为什么喜欢张元英，我从来没有想过，现在回过头来看，我喜欢的是在她身上一直存在的“新人美”—“勇敢、努力 ”“完美爱豆”一直都是她的代名词。对粉丝真诚，会记住每一个努力去见她的粉丝，会把不容易得来的采访镜头让给团里最小的妹妹，每个接触过的ido都会称赞人品的女孩，是在粉丝眼里的公主nim 在团里明明年纪排行第四、却在扮演一个大姐姐的角色。在连轴转的行程下，只有乱纪会注意到的细微的疲惫，为了拍mv胳膊上缝了七针，如果没有导演的话，我们永远都不会知道她为了拍一个mv受这么重的伤，却还是完美的拍摄完了整段剧情，没有露出一点疲惫。她所展示出的永远是最完美最开心的自己，但我们好像都忘了04年出生的她今年也才19周岁，她也只是一个刚刚过青春期、刚刚成年的小女孩，她也会想妈妈，她也会累到眼睛都睁不开。但她展现给世界的永远是坚强、完美的一面。 乱纪为什么会从22年这样大规模的网暴里挺过来，因为我们知道元英、了解她，她是一个怎么样的人。 IZ*ONE的忙内-元英， 一个喜欢所有姐姐的14岁的忙内，一个会想把所有好的一面展现给观众的小孩，又怎么可能会对姐姐白眼。被导师夸奖可爱的表情管理，并且作为当时唯一一个获得百万票的选手，我记得决赛夜还是元英的生日，而且这是一档选秀，张元英的人气一直都是处于排名第一的其中一位，难道两个人的争斗中张元英不能拿第一吗？张元英拿的是堂堂正正的c位。元英还会在泡泡为了中国粉丝发中文，听到漂亮两个字会转头和粉丝说谢谢、连袜子找不到都要发泡泡和粉丝说的幼稚小孩。会穿元首送的生日礼物、元首送的耳麦和麦克风，在每次ins里都会给特写，还会为了耳麦专门搭配合适的衣服，她会永远珍惜每位粉丝。在上高中时，她会友善的对每位同学，每天素颜上学，班里的女孩子也会保护她， 因为太高， 会把她围在一起不引人注目 ，就算是被发现的元英，也会热情的对待每一位同学， 给同学签名、 牵着同学的手说谢谢 、记住每个同学的专业和名字。 在元英身上看到的也不止新人美 ，也是已经出道6年的成熟ido 。每场演出的认真表演 、出名的甜心饭撒， 她不会让所有努力去见她的粉丝愿望落空。 在元英身上看到的不只有对粉丝的爱， 更有对这项职业的尊重和热爱 ，爱张元英是我的本能。 记得作为学霸的元英最初的梦想是当一名律师， 或许这才更适合元英的人生 ，但元英， 谢谢你成为张元英，谢谢你成为了ido，我永远爱你。
#看好书成为更好的自己##你当像鸟飞往你的山##读书感悟#
#原生家庭对子女的影响#
对我来说 有很长一段时间
I think there was a long time for me
我觉得因为我爱他们（家人）
I thought because I loved them
这意味着我可能做了错误的决定（远离他们）
that meant maybe I had made the wrong decision
或者因为我想念他们
or because I missed them
然后我会怀疑自己
and then I would second guess myself
因为我还想念他们
and say oh because I missed them
这一定意味着我犯了一个错误
it must mean that I made a mistake
我花了很长时间才弄明白
and it took me a really long time to figure out that
爱就是爱
yeah love is just love
我和我父亲之间发生的最后一件事情
one of the last things that happened between me and my father.
当我最后一次见他时
the last time I saw him
他走过来
he came over
从侧面非常尴尬地抱了我
and he gave me this really awkward side hug
他对我说
and he said to me
“我是爱你的你知道吗”
I love you you know that
我说。我知道”
and I said I do
“这一点从来都不是问题所在”
that has never been the issue
我一直明自我父亲是爱我的
and I always knew my father loved me
我当然知道他爱我
of course I knew he loved me
我知道父亲对我做的事情不是因为他不爱我
and I don't think my dad did anything that he did from a lack of love
但是爱会变成一种伤害
and I think we do love a real disservice
当我们用他来控制 压迫和改变他人时
when we make it about control and power and changing people
这不是真正的爱
and that's not what it is
如果你爱一个人 你会无条件的给予他们爱
you love people you give them that for free
然后你再决定
and then you decide
你是否要将他们看做自己生命的一部分
whether that's something that you want to have in your life
相反的方式就是
and the alternative is to say
我要先改变他们
well I'm going to change them
然后让他们融入我的生活
and then I'll have them in my life
这不是爱的定义
that's not what love is
更不是爱所赋予的控制欲
and it's not the power that it has
我依然爱我的家人
I would say with my own family I love them now
尽管我和家里一半的人疏远了
I'm estranged from half my family
我很爱他们 但我已经接受了一个事实
love them very much but I've accepted the fact
我需要他们做出改变 才能让他们进入我的生活
I need them to change to have them in my life
但至于他们是否会改变 我无法控制
and whether or not they change is something I have no control over
你要能够构想出不同的生活
to being able to conceive of a different thing
而不是局限于眼前已有的生活
than the life you have in front of you
有一段话我很喜欢
there's a scripture that I really like
信念是所望之事的实质
faith is the substance of things hope for
是未见之事的明证
the evidence of things not seen
让我很难摆脱家庭束缚
that made it hard for me to let go of my family
就是难以想象
was not being able to imagine
未来没有他们的生活
any kind of future life that didn't have them in it
我想每个人都是这样
and I think that's what everybody does
我们在不同的家庭中成长
we grew up in these families
学会了某种模式
and we learned certain patterns
我们觉得摆脱了束缚 改变了自己
and we think that we're all liberated and changed
但是一旦我们重新回到那种环境中
and then as soon as we get back in that situation
我们会重复原来的模式
we repeat those patterns
甚至更糟
or worse
家庭中经常存在很多问题
ery often we have dysfunctional family relationship
然后我们走向外面的世界
and then we go out into the world
发现有些人和自己一样重复着这种模式
and we find people who will repeat that pattern with
有些人永远无法摆脱
some people who will never leave it
我们会吸引和自己相同的人
we attract those people
所以我更喜欢一种信仰是
and l think I love this idea of faith
一种对更美好和不同世界的信仰
as a belief in a better world and a different world
感受不同的的人生体验
and a different life that you've experienced
体验尚未拥有过的爱
love that you may not have experienced yet
但要学会放手
but to let go of what is
试着看看事情会如何发展
and try to see what things could be
信仰和教育之间有一个奇妙的交集
I think of as a really amazing intersection between faith and education
因为这两者的结合
because it's those two things together
会让你看清生活的本质
it's the ability to see your life as it is
以及想象一种不同的生活
and imagine a different life
#原生家庭对子女的影响#
对我来说 有很长一段时间
I think there was a long time for me
我觉得因为我爱他们（家人）
I thought because I loved them
这意味着我可能做了错误的决定（远离他们）
that meant maybe I had made the wrong decision
或者因为我想念他们
or because I missed them
然后我会怀疑自己
and then I would second guess myself
因为我还想念他们
and say oh because I missed them
这一定意味着我犯了一个错误
it must mean that I made a mistake
我花了很长时间才弄明白
and it took me a really long time to figure out that
爱就是爱
yeah love is just love
我和我父亲之间发生的最后一件事情
one of the last things that happened between me and my father.
当我最后一次见他时
the last time I saw him
他走过来
he came over
从侧面非常尴尬地抱了我
and he gave me this really awkward side hug
他对我说
and he said to me
“我是爱你的你知道吗”
I love you you know that
我说。我知道”
and I said I do
“这一点从来都不是问题所在”
that has never been the issue
我一直明自我父亲是爱我的
and I always knew my father loved me
我当然知道他爱我
of course I knew he loved me
我知道父亲对我做的事情不是因为他不爱我
and I don't think my dad did anything that he did from a lack of love
但是爱会变成一种伤害
and I think we do love a real disservice
当我们用他来控制 压迫和改变他人时
when we make it about control and power and changing people
这不是真正的爱
and that's not what it is
如果你爱一个人 你会无条件的给予他们爱
you love people you give them that for free
然后你再决定
and then you decide
你是否要将他们看做自己生命的一部分
whether that's something that you want to have in your life
相反的方式就是
and the alternative is to say
我要先改变他们
well I'm going to change them
然后让他们融入我的生活
and then I'll have them in my life
这不是爱的定义
that's not what love is
更不是爱所赋予的控制欲
and it's not the power that it has
我依然爱我的家人
I would say with my own family I love them now
尽管我和家里一半的人疏远了
I'm estranged from half my family
我很爱他们 但我已经接受了一个事实
love them very much but I've accepted the fact
我需要他们做出改变 才能让他们进入我的生活
I need them to change to have them in my life
但至于他们是否会改变 我无法控制
and whether or not they change is something I have no control over
你要能够构想出不同的生活
to being able to conceive of a different thing
而不是局限于眼前已有的生活
than the life you have in front of you
有一段话我很喜欢
there's a scripture that I really like
信念是所望之事的实质
faith is the substance of things hope for
是未见之事的明证
the evidence of things not seen
让我很难摆脱家庭束缚
that made it hard for me to let go of my family
就是难以想象
was not being able to imagine
未来没有他们的生活
any kind of future life that didn't have them in it
我想每个人都是这样
and I think that's what everybody does
我们在不同的家庭中成长
we grew up in these families
学会了某种模式
and we learned certain patterns
我们觉得摆脱了束缚 改变了自己
and we think that we're all liberated and changed
但是一旦我们重新回到那种环境中
and then as soon as we get back in that situation
我们会重复原来的模式
we repeat those patterns
甚至更糟
or worse
家庭中经常存在很多问题
ery often we have dysfunctional family relationship
然后我们走向外面的世界
and then we go out into the world
发现有些人和自己一样重复着这种模式
and we find people who will repeat that pattern with
有些人永远无法摆脱
some people who will never leave it
我们会吸引和自己相同的人
we attract those people
所以我更喜欢一种信仰是
and l think I love this idea of faith
一种对更美好和不同世界的信仰
as a belief in a better world and a different world
感受不同的的人生体验
and a different life that you've experienced
体验尚未拥有过的爱
love that you may not have experienced yet
但要学会放手
but to let go of what is
试着看看事情会如何发展
and try to see what things could be
信仰和教育之间有一个奇妙的交集
I think of as a really amazing intersection between faith and education
因为这两者的结合
because it's those two things together
会让你看清生活的本质
it's the ability to see your life as it is
以及想象一种不同的生活
and imagine a different life
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