面对失意、困苦、人生低潮的时候，心态的决定性作用才会凸显。心态乐观、态度积极的人，依靠后天积累的坚韧，能够直面自己犯下的错误，勇敢地进行修正，从而拥有前进的动力。而消极悲观的人，只会在怨天尤人中用“机会没有到来”“环境不好”等借口来安慰自己。或许我们还不能控制人生道路上的阴晴，但可以自由地掌握自己的心态，迎接阳光，把影子留在身后。
In the face of frustration, hardship, and low tides in life, the decisive role of mindset will be highlighted. People with an optimistic and positive attitude rely on the tenacity they have accumulated from experience to face the mistakes they make and bravely correct them, thereby gaining the motivation to move forward. And people who are negative and pessimistic will only comfort themselves with excuses such as "the opportunity has not come" and "the environment is not good.” Although we can't control whether it is sunny or cloudy on the road of life, we can freely control our own state of mind. Welcome the sunshine, and leave the shadows behind you.
In the face of frustration, hardship, and low tides in life, the decisive role of mindset will be highlighted. People with an optimistic and positive attitude rely on the tenacity they have accumulated from experience to face the mistakes they make and bravely correct them, thereby gaining the motivation to move forward. And people who are negative and pessimistic will only comfort themselves with excuses such as "the opportunity has not come" and "the environment is not good.” Although we can't control whether it is sunny or cloudy on the road of life, we can freely control our own state of mind. Welcome the sunshine, and leave the shadows behind you.
图 7.2。左：摘自我们报纸的服务版（公共公报第 182 号 - 2009 年 8 月 8 日）：“挺起肚子、垂着肩膀：下垂的姿势（左）不吸引人。举止得体的人（中左）自然会更好的印象。”最左边的姿势当然不可取！所展示的“直立姿势”看起来更像是女子吞下了一根金属杆。在我们看来，右边的两位女性给人留下了最好的印象（中间右边，最佳自然姿势，最右边是一个八岁的女孩，她自然、坚强的姿势）。
Fig. 7.2. Left: From the service pages ofour newspaper (Public Gazette Nr. 182 - 8.8.2009): "Sticking-out stomach and hanging shoulders: droopy posture (left) isn't attractive. Someone who carries themselves properly (middle left) automatically makes a better impression." The posture on the far left is certainly not desirable! The "upright posture" shown looks more like the woman has swallowed a metal pole. In our opinion, the two women on the right make the best impression (middle right, optimal natural posture and far right an eight-yearold with her natural, strong posture).
Fig. 7.2. Left: From the service pages ofour newspaper (Public Gazette Nr. 182 - 8.8.2009): "Sticking-out stomach and hanging shoulders: droopy posture (left) isn't attractive. Someone who carries themselves properly (middle left) automatically makes a better impression." The posture on the far left is certainly not desirable! The "upright posture" shown looks more like the woman has swallowed a metal pole. In our opinion, the two women on the right make the best impression (middle right, optimal natural posture and far right an eight-yearold with her natural, strong posture).
在阿斯代伦表白夜选择不要真情实意只要巫山云雨，即便一万个不情愿，他依旧还是给了…因为两百年来形成的本能，因为两百年的奴役让他不知道如何拒绝…
在另外一个选项“那你为什么要陪我睡？！”里他恨恨地说道“Because I don't know how to say No. But I do now.”
本以为自己找到真爱，不会将他只当做一个玩物，而是当成一个人来爱惜，结果发现自己依旧所托非人… 心痛更是无以复加。
I'm not sure if I should.
I don't think I want you to think of me in terms of sex.
I don't know if I want anyone to…
I suppose it has felt different with you…
I suppose if this is what you want… then…I should provide…
…Sign
（Are you all right？What's wrong？）
It's almost funny.
This is all a game to you, isn't it？
No matter what I say, it doesn't matter. Not if you get what you want…
（But you seemed like you were enjoying it last night…）
Of course I did.
I know that dance better than anyone.But I always felt nothing.Not last night, though.
Last night…I felt miserable.And it was a revelation.
For as long as I can remember, I've been used by others. Controlled, puppeted for someone else's pleasure. But not anymore！
Whatever we had…whatever it was, IT'S OVER！
在另外一个选项“那你为什么要陪我睡？！”里他恨恨地说道“Because I don't know how to say No. But I do now.”
本以为自己找到真爱，不会将他只当做一个玩物，而是当成一个人来爱惜，结果发现自己依旧所托非人… 心痛更是无以复加。
I'm not sure if I should.
I don't think I want you to think of me in terms of sex.
I don't know if I want anyone to…
I suppose it has felt different with you…
I suppose if this is what you want… then…I should provide…
…Sign
（Are you all right？What's wrong？）
It's almost funny.
This is all a game to you, isn't it？
No matter what I say, it doesn't matter. Not if you get what you want…
（But you seemed like you were enjoying it last night…）
Of course I did.
I know that dance better than anyone.But I always felt nothing.Not last night, though.
Last night…I felt miserable.And it was a revelation.
For as long as I can remember, I've been used by others. Controlled, puppeted for someone else's pleasure. But not anymore！
Whatever we had…whatever it was, IT'S OVER！
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