"One day, you won't need strong love anymore, what you want is someone who won't leave you, will give you a coat when it's cold, will give you a glass of warm water when your stomach hurts, When you're sad, I'll hug you, stay by your side, and walk with you every step of the way. You don't need to love more and more every day, but just a serious sentence: Don't leave. "
"If love fails again, I will be your new past.
If we succeed, we will be each other's future."

每日一讲，第1022讲、改变交流方式

If you want people to really hear you, change the way you speak to them

沟通交流中，我们选择的措辞、语气及所要表达的意图都至关重要。我们需要反思：说话目的是表达自己想法，还是希望对方理解我们？

每个人都有固定的世界观和思维方式，因此往往更愿意听到符合他们期望的信息。除非你能够从对方视角表达，否则将永远被视为外人。

正如约瑟夫 • 乌兰所言：「要想让别人真正听到你的声音，就需要用他们能够理解的方式表达。」变革需要有效沟通，意味着我们需要不断尝试，从不同观点和视角出发，确保我们的信息不仅被准确的传达，而且被深刻的理解和接受。

#阳光信用[超话]#

No one will be held accountable for your failures, they will only applaud your successes. If you don't have the power to change your destiny, find a way to change yourself. If you can't change the result, perfect the process. The belief in success acts like an alarm clock in the human brain that wakes you up when you need it.

没有人会为你的失败负责，他们只会为你的成功喝彩。如果你没有能力改变命运，那就想办法改变你自己。如果不能改变结果，那就完善过程。成功的信念在人脑中的作用就如闹钟，会在你需要时将你唤醒。

#阳光信用# #每日一善#