朋友这种关系,最美在于锦上添花;最可贵,贵在雪中送炭；朋友中的极品，便如好茶，淡而不涩，清香但不扑鼻，缓缓飘来，似水长流。（by三毛）

Friend this kind of relationship, the most beautiful is icing on the cake; The most valuable, you provide charcoal in the snow; Friends of the best, like good tea, light but not astringent, fragrance but not tangy, slowly floating, like water. (by three hairs)

“你总说你舍不得,好爱他,离不开他,图他什么你答得上来吗,那个人很爱你吗,给你花很多钱了吗,有很多时间陪你了吗,让你更快乐了吗，让你锦上添花了吗，让你变得更加优秀了吗,无论如何得占一个吧,如果没有那么请不要忘记他让你流过的那些眼泪,那些让你带着情绪辗转反侧的夜晚,那些让你难过到发抖的瞬间,这些足以把他判个死刑…..”

"You always say that you can't give up, love him, can't live without him, what do you think you can answer, does that person love you very much, spend a lot of money on you, have a lot of time with you, make you happier, make you icing on the cake? Let you become more excellent, in any case to occupy a it, if not then please do not forget that he let you flow those tears, those let you toss and turn with emotions at night, those let you sad to shake the moment, these are enough to sentence him to death... .."

下雨了你才知道谁会送你伞，有事了你才知道谁对你真心。有的人只会锦上添花，却不会给予及时的帮助，有的人只会火上浇油，不会坦诚相待。
You don't know who will give you an umbrella until it rains, and you don't know who is sincere to you until something happens. Some people will only add icing on the cake, but they will not give timely help. Some people will only add fuel to the fire and will not be honest with each other.