It's the 6th day, I have arrived at Thailand. In the emptiness of no feeling, began to try to find some fun, today is also the second day of running on campus, the numbness has eased, at least can feel the body ache. It seems that all the questions do not answer, the answer has a later, the facts are telling me, don't worry about negative, don't worry about sure, floating restlessness or pride, will eventually settle, what you have to do, always do your best, leave no regrets.

母亲是一个家庭的定海神针

如何形容一个人冷静而理性？米歇尔奥巴马在自传 Becoming 中这样描写她的母亲：She has a kind of unflappable zen neutrality. 其中 unflappable 这个词全书提到了好多次，flap 在英式用法中有“激动紧张”的意思，比如没必要惊慌，就可以说 there's no need to flap. 谈到这儿，unflappable 表示冷静镇定是不是就好理解了？

下面她接着提到以前她们家住的社区一度没落，被媒体称为 ghetto 贫民窟，很多白人家庭都搬到郊区或治安更好的地方，但是她妈妈的反应是这样的：she didn't buy into fear-mongering, and at the same time seemed equally inoculated against any sort of pie-in-the-sky idealism. 她既不听信流言也不盲目乐观，fear-mongering 在前面讲如何积累词汇时提到过，monger有小贩兜售的意思，fear-mongering就指传播恐慌，那么传播负能量的人就是 gloom-monger.

除了用 unflappable, 米歇尔也用了其他的同义表达：my mother was simply even-keeled, 还有 unfazed by unpleasant things.

每当母亲给她建议时，advice, when she offered it, tended to be of the hard-boiled and pragmatic variety. hard-boiled 可以表示鸡蛋煮老的，也可以表示人理性，不感情用事。大事不慌，小事不乱，这是安全感，也是强大的人格魅力。

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