以德报怨如何表达？
take the high road

To behave in a moral way when other people are not behaving morally不跟人一般见识，即使别人对你做了不道德的事，也保持涵养。

 Linda's husband got drunk and hit the ceiling last night, but she was not mad at him. Instead, she chose to take the high road and forgive him. She understood her husband had been under great pressure lately.

琳达的丈夫昨晚喝多了，还大发脾气，但是她却没有生他的气。相反，她选择了以德报怨，并且原谅了他。她理解她的丈夫最近压力很大。

hit the ceiling /hɪt ðə ˈsiːlɪŋ/：勃然大怒，大发脾气

A real boyfriend can tell when his girl's happy, mad, sad, being sarcastic, on her period and even lying, because that's his girl.真正爱你的男朋友知道你什么时候在开心，什么时候在发疯，什么时候在难过，什么时候在挖苦人，什么时候大姨妈，甚至什么时候在撒谎。只因为你是他的女人。 ​​​

Well, maybe it's like Casy says. A fellow ain't got a soul of his own, just little piece of a big soul, the one big soul that belongs to everybody, then... Then it don't matter. I'll be all around in the dark - I'll be everywhere. Wherever you can look - wherever there's a fight, so hungry people can eat, I'll be there. Wherever there's a cop beatin' up a guy, I'll be there. I'll be in the way guys yell when they're mad. I'll be in the way kids laugh when they're hungry and they know supper's ready, and when the people are eatin' the stuff they raise and livin' in the houses they build - I'll be there, too.

“或许就像凯西说的，一个人的灵魂不只属于自己，它只是大灵魂的一小部分，属于每个人的大灵魂。嗯……一个人的灵魂没关系。我将充溢于黑暗之中，我将无处不在，你目光所及都是我。哪里的穷人为吃饱肚子而抗争，哪里就有我。哪里有警察殴打穷人，哪里就有我。我就在愤怒呼喊的人群中。我就在因闻到晚饭香而欢笑的饥肠辘辘的孩子们身边。当人们能够享用自己种的粮食，住进亲手建造的家中时，我也会在那里。”