Kylie在采访中回复她和Jordyn的关系: “这些年来，我和Jordyn一直保持联系，我们会在我家见面，叙叙旧，谈谈所有的事情。我们从来没有完全切断彼此的联系，有一天，我们很自然地说，我们想要吃寿司，我们不想再隐藏了。每件事都有一个教训，我觉得奇怪的是，每件事都按照它应该发生的方式发生。我们是如此的依恋，我们需要空间来成长为我们应该成为的人。我需要那种独立和自信，因为长久以来，她就像我的安全毯。”(机翻)

Jordyn and I, we always stayed in touch throughout the years and we would meet up at my house and catch up and just talk through everything. We never fully cut each other off, and one day, naturally, we were like, we want to get sushi and we don’t want to hide anymore. There’s a learning lesson in everything, and I think that in a weird way, everything happens how it’s supposed to happen. We were so attached at the hip that we needed space to grow into the people that we were supposed to be. I needed that independence and that confidence because she was like my security blanket for so long.

“when I committed this sin , I felt pure, more pure than I felt in my entire life. So how can I be sorry for it. 当我犯下你说的罪名之时，我感到被净化，比我生命的任何时刻都要纯净。所以我如何能为这体验感到抱歉呢？ ”我滴妈，虽然最后是be，但是be得很真实。Tim怎么面对爱和信仰的冲突，又怎么能接受爱人的背叛呢。‍，为什么老是搞虐受情节啊[裂开]

冬天真的蛮适合分离的，我从年初的魄魄彻底风光大葬，到周周渐行渐远，再到狗善在现实中be——以另一种方式得到圆满的两个人多年后终究留下了让人怅然若失的遗憾。情绪从悲伤，深感不值得，到现在平和的接受分离是常态，毕竟不是人人都是骗钱又辜负真心的赘婿(最近吃捞男的瓜吃的哭笑不得，付出真心的人傻的让人唉声叹气)，大多数人大概只是走散了。

最近开始看老友记，“那时我们难道不都认为自己会遇见一个人、坠入爱河，然后厮守终生吗？”老友记里面Ross和Rachel这段对话还挺符合我曾经的心境，而这时候的他们，一个离婚一个逃婚，so分离真的是人生常态，哪怕心情复杂甚至有不舍，也会是大多数人的必修课题。