#老友记钱德勒扮演者去世#第一集他说的那句”and I just want a million dollar!”是我看老友记时的第一个笑点，第十季的”where?”是我看老友记的最后一个笑点，尽管是含泪的。我真的很希望很希望看到他终于被生活温柔以待的那一天，但既然命运还是要开玩笑，Good night, Matthew. WE WILL MEET AT THE CHECKOUT COUNTER.

“我22岁时怀孕了，计划外的，孩子的父亲我们甚至都没在交往。但我认为我能靠自己处理好，当时我感觉自己像个现代的女人。我在上法学院，我想成为一名外交官。但是，噢天哪！那叫一个难。在情感上我并没准备好去面对它，而社会也并不祝福一个未婚妈妈的孩子。当你结了婚怀了孕，人们会来问各种问题：‘男孩？还是女孩？’‘感觉咋样？’但当你是单身，就不会是这样。人们看到我越来越胖，但每个人都避而不谈，而是互相打听：‘咋回事？你知道么？’反倒我感觉被视而不见。我从法学院退学了，因为我觉得难为情，幸好还有几个好朋友陪我度过了那段时间。我女儿现在18岁，一切都好转了，但我真希望当初能好好享受我的怀孕期。”
（里约热内卢，巴西）

“I got pregnant when I was twenty-two. It wasn’t planned. The father and I weren’t even in a relationship. But I thought I could handle it on my own. I felt like a modern woman. I was in law school. I wanted to be a diplomat. But oh man, it was hard. I wasn’t emotionally prepared to deal with it. Society doesn’t treat the child of an unwed mother like a blessing. When you’re married and pregnant, people come up and ask all kinds of questions: ‘Is it a boy? Is it a girl? How are you feeling?’ But that doesn’t happen when you’re single. People saw me getting fatter, but everyone avoided the subject. Instead they asked each other: ‘What happened? Do you know anything?’ I felt invisible. I dropped out of law school because I felt so ashamed. Thankfully a few close friends carried me through. My daughter is eighteen now. Everything turned out fine. But I wish I could have enjoyed my pregnancy more.”
(Rio de Janeiro, Brazil)

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I would walk through storms and life challenges just to be with you forever, Oppa ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I may not have a perfect life, but your love has completed me, my hubby ❤❤
Even with all my imperfections,
i will try my hardest to give the best for Oppa ❤❤
The thought of being with Oppa always gives me the strength to get through the day. ❤❤