【受过同伴伤害的青少年更可能对朋友过度保护,但过度保护反而伤害了友谊质量?[委屈]】
有一位愿意在你需要时挺身而出的好友,是令人向往的;但是,如果好友对你的保护已经过度,甚至已经有点儿不必要或令人烦扰,你会有何感想?这种现象被心理学研究者称为「过度保护」(overprotection)。
荷兰期刊《青少年与青春期杂志》刊登了耶鲁大学等机构研究者的一项研究,他们联系了纽约西部3所中学的校长,从这些学校中招募了269名6~8年级学生(平均年龄11.46岁),完成了相隔4个月的2波调查。结果发现:
①受到过更严重的身体欺凌或关系欺凌、或被同伴排斥的青少年,更有可能对自己的朋友过度保护。
②然而,受到朋友过度保护的青少年,对「友谊质量」(friendship quality)的评价显著下降。
友谊质量包括亲密关系(例如在一起时开心)、安全感(例如告诉朋友一些无法告诉别人的事情)、帮助感(例如有需要时朋友会施以帮助)。
③对朋友过度保护的青少年,「内化症状」(internalizing symptoms)更加严重,例如,担心未来会发生什么,不喜欢和不认识的人在一起,情绪低落,抑郁,易怒,无望,等。
研究者指出,无论过度保护朋友,还是被朋友过度保护,都可能是有风险的,而并非有益的。青少年可能在一开始会认为,有一个过度保护的朋友是有帮助的;然而随着时间的推移,他们可能会越来越将这种行为视为侵入性的,这可能使得友谊质量下降。
来源:Etkin, R. G., & Bowker, J. C. (2023). Bidirectional associations between friend overprotection and psychosocial adjustment during adolescence. Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 52(4), 780–793. doi: 10.1007/s10964-023-01741-6
有一位愿意在你需要时挺身而出的好友,是令人向往的;但是,如果好友对你的保护已经过度,甚至已经有点儿不必要或令人烦扰,你会有何感想?这种现象被心理学研究者称为「过度保护」(overprotection)。
荷兰期刊《青少年与青春期杂志》刊登了耶鲁大学等机构研究者的一项研究,他们联系了纽约西部3所中学的校长,从这些学校中招募了269名6~8年级学生(平均年龄11.46岁),完成了相隔4个月的2波调查。结果发现:
①受到过更严重的身体欺凌或关系欺凌、或被同伴排斥的青少年,更有可能对自己的朋友过度保护。
②然而,受到朋友过度保护的青少年,对「友谊质量」(friendship quality)的评价显著下降。
友谊质量包括亲密关系(例如在一起时开心)、安全感(例如告诉朋友一些无法告诉别人的事情)、帮助感(例如有需要时朋友会施以帮助)。
③对朋友过度保护的青少年,「内化症状」(internalizing symptoms)更加严重,例如,担心未来会发生什么,不喜欢和不认识的人在一起,情绪低落,抑郁,易怒,无望,等。
研究者指出,无论过度保护朋友,还是被朋友过度保护,都可能是有风险的,而并非有益的。青少年可能在一开始会认为,有一个过度保护的朋友是有帮助的;然而随着时间的推移,他们可能会越来越将这种行为视为侵入性的,这可能使得友谊质量下降。
来源:Etkin, R. G., & Bowker, J. C. (2023). Bidirectional associations between friend overprotection and psychosocial adjustment during adolescence. Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 52(4), 780–793. doi: 10.1007/s10964-023-01741-6
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AVATAR: THE LAST AIRBENDER - AANG (COLLECTOR'S EDITION)SRP
SKU - AVAANGCO
For the Collector’s Edition, two(2) LED functions have been added to his “air scooter” – animated mode sees the lights swirl around the sphere, making it look as if Aang is riding it!
Avatar: The Last Airbender - Aang (Collector's Edition) comes with the following:- Avatar: The Last Airbender - Aang PVC painted statue
- Base inspired by the animation art style.
- Two (2) LED functions (Static and Animated) in the “air scooter”*- F4F Leaflet with 500 F4F reward points included
*Rechargeable 18500 Li+ battery and USB-C cable not included.
Product Size (Statue including base) -
10.6”/27cm(H) x 6.3”/16cm(W) x 7.9”/20 cm(D) Weight - 0.49kg
Display Box Size - 200mm(L) x 200mm(W) x 390mm(H)
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