翻书随手翻到了Robert Frost，The Road Not Taken与Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening。这两首诗也是当时初读的时候给我感触最深的诗。

未选择的路总是看起来好像更加诱人，因为它始终具有无数种可能性与迷人的未知性。但是未选择的事物一定就是更好的嘛？我们在回忆的时候产生的一些懊悔情绪很大程度也来源于那些未曾做出的决定，其实它们未必是最好的，它的“好”也许完全是我们的想象力所赋予的。魅力很大程度源于神秘感，我们已选择的事物正是因为熟悉而失去了这种未知的神秘感，所以才会显得不那么吸引自己了。所以说不要总讲那么多if only，把握好能把握的就足够了。

我认为雪夜林边小驻中最有意味的是最后两行诗，因为写的就是Frost对选择死亡还是继续前行的矛盾感。Miles to go before I sleep. Miles to go before I sleep. 第二个sleep何尝不是death呢？站在林边，或许是一片很安静漂亮的松林，令人驻足，甚至想永久停留于此。但是想起来还有约、要归家，还有重要的事情要承担，便不能再驻足于此，也无法抛下责任而选择解脱。解脱与责任感，轻与重，矛盾又难舍难分。死亡，看似沉重，但是当面对更加沉重的责任感时，好像便具有了诱惑力。但是幸好对死亡的思考也仅仅持续了驻足的间歇而已。

#每日一善[超话]#
#阳光信用# #每日一善#
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. 光明灿烂的明天建立在忘却的过去之上。只有让以往的失败和伤心随风而去，你才能过得更好. ​​​

#每日一善[超话]##阳光信用##每日一善#
Come to decide that the things that I tried were in my life just to get high on
When I sit alone, come get a little known
But I need more than myself this time
Step from the road to the sea to the sky,and I do believe that we rely on
When I lay it on, come get to play it on
All my life to sacrifice
Hey oh
listen what I say oh
I got your hey oh
Now listen what I say oh
The more I see the less I know
The more I like to let it go
Deep beneath the cover of another perfect wonder where it's so white as snow
Privately divided by a word so undecided and there's nowhere to go
Inbetween the cover of another perfect wonder and it's so white as snow