#打开我的青春锦囊# #开学季# 【独立女性必看电影】《走出非洲》、《人在纽约》、《阿黛尔·雨果的故事》、《清洁》、《时时刻刻》、《乱世佳人》、《征婚启事》、《饮食男女》、《蒙娜丽莎的微笑》、《革命之路》、《朗读者》、《成为简·奥斯汀》、《朱莉与朱莉娅》、《希尔维亚》。那些别样的女子们从不甘心做男人的配角。

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“开口让人帮忙好难，因为别人都认为你是妈妈，理应照顾孩子。而你又永远不会想说:‘当妈的也需要帮忙。’我怀了她九个月，知道她要来，有心理准备。我觉得自己应该能照顾好她，不想让其他人中止自己的生活来帮我带孩子，尤其不想让没参与孕育这个孩子的人来帮忙。但最终我还是屈服了。我就一个人，7天24小时无休的带孩子真的让人抓狂。再看到别人依旧过的有滋有味，我就很郁闷，然后就会故意搞事情。这已经危害到我跟其他人的关系了。我会跟我妈和男朋友吵架，本来好好的一句开场白‘能帮下忙吗？’，我都会发脾气，直接来一句：‘你们为啥不帮忙?’”

“It’s so hard to ask for help. Because you’re supposed to be ‘Mommy.’ And you never want to say: ‘I need help being Mommy.’ I carried this person for nine months. I knew she was coming. I felt like I should be able to handle it and I didn’t want to ask other people to stop their lives. Especially if they had no part in making this baby. But eventually I had to give in. I’m just one person and being ‘Mama’ 24/7 can make you crazy. I found myself getting frustrated that other people were going on with their lives. I’d let things fester. And it was unhealthy for my relationships. I’d get heated with my mother and boyfriend. Instead of beginning with ‘Can you help?’ I’d lose my temper, and jump straight to: ‘Why aren’t you helping?’”